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Horny men, desperate women, and hookup culture: How evolutionary psychology and Margaret Wente get most things wrong

November 13, 2012

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Margaret Wente is doing her part to contribute to the desperately needed cannon of writing that encourages women to live in fear of growing old, man-free. These kinds of pieces have been coming out on a regular basis for some time now. Notably, Susan Faludi addressed ye old ‘man shortage’ scare in her 1991 book, [...]

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Podcast: Can marriage ever be feminist? An interview with Nicola Barker

September 3, 2012

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Though many of the more oppressive aspects of marriage have been removed, the institution itself continues to represent and reinforce a patriarchal and heteronormative ideology in many ways. Marriage seems barely relevant in this day and age and yet we continue to marry. In fact, one of the key struggles towards gender equality appears to [...]

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Occupy Valentine's Day

February 7, 2012

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Most of my love stories end with me feeling like I put a whole lot of energy into trying to build something out of nothing. Lust turns to love so easily and before you know it you’re invested in a relationship that seems more important than you. You end up trying to save a relationship [...]

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Marriage, monogamy and compulsory sex(uality).

August 11, 2011

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I tend not to involve myself in debates around marriage, commitment and monogamy. Moral arguments don’t do it for me and I have little to no interest in arguing for monogamy (if you are into it, don’t care, if not, also don’t care). Since marriage is, as far as I’m concerned, a useless remnant of [...]

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'My Big Feminist Life' or 'How Love Didn't Change my Politics'

March 23, 2011

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I never wanted to get married. And I am still that woman. It’s not because I thought I would never meet the right man and it’s not because I was witness to a divorce that shattered my faith ye old sacred institution, that which once placed women in the honourable position of chattle. Nor was [...]

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